The first time might be a little scary, but don’t worry. If there’s a musky aroma at first, it goes away the more you lick and suck and her natural juices come to life.
Each woman is different, and she may or may not like what you’re doing, so you can always peek up and ask, “Do you like this? Is this all right?”
Some women like to experience a finger or two or three inside while you suck her clitoris, but for some the sensations are so different that some women prefer to focus. Start with the clit, then gently ease a finger in and see if she still likes it. As she becomes more aroused, her G-spot may start begging for some curved finger action inside. Go for it!
As for her butt, some women like a finger inside her butt, and for some women it distracts from the main event. Just remember never to put a finger in her butt and then in her cunt. That’s a no-no. You want to avoid infection. You can go in the other direction, from her vagina to her anus, but don’t reverse direction.
Wear gloves. That’s always good advice. But we know that even the best-intentioned lovers don’t always come prepared. And longtime lovers may think foregoing gloves is okay. It may be; just be aware of what you’re doing and where you are.
Lick to your heart’s content! The taste should be clean and delicious as she becomes more aroused. Ditto the smell, as mentioned above.
If she has her period, you can still perform that most delectable act of cunnilingus if she wants it and if she permits it. Move the tampon string aside and keep your fingers out of her unless she specifically requests it.
Be gentle, and let her moans of pleasure guide you.
To see one of the loveliest lesbian cunnilingus scenes on film, check out One Night Stand. And the scene with Anja and Eva in Coming Home features a great scene with real lesbian 69 with close-ups.
Reawakening Desire
April 15th, 2010Springtime is truly here. The trees are blooming, baseball has started, and temperatures are rising. We’ve been thinking about sex, how the springtime air and the shedding of heavy coats and sweaters makes the body sing again.
Our friend Deborah Sundahl was visiting over the Easter holiday and subsequent week that many take as spring break. And she got us thinking about rediscovering the G-spot, and rediscovering the power of female sexuality.
There are still some people who deny the existence of the G-spot and the ability for women to female ejaculate. But Deborah’s longtime dedication to showing the G-spot on video should leave no doubt in anyone’s mind.
If you’re a novice when it comes to the G-spot, start with Deborah’s bestselling classic, How to Female Ejaculate.
Really, there’s nothing quite like it. And what better time than springtime to allow your body to open up and rediscover pure orgasm like no other in the world.
Till next time, yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
P.S. “Adventurous Couples Unite” is a female-ejaculation gift set with three Deborah Sundahl videos. You save 17%.
P.P.S. You can see all Fatale’s DVDs here.
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