Posts Tagged ‘Sex’

The Clit Gets an Ad Campaign

Friday, September 13th, 2013

Cliteracy by Sophia Wallace

We didn’t realize the clit needed its own ad campaign. But according to Sophia Wallace, that’s exactly what the clit—unappreciated, undervalued in the world—needs. And she’s out to make sure the world knows about it in a new “Cliteracy” campaign.

Why cliteracy? Why now?

This is about much more than just women’s sexuality, Wallace maintains.

“Cliteracy is about not having one’s body controlled or legislated. Not having access to the pleasure that is your birthright is a deeply political act,” she told the Huffington Post.

A Tumblr campaign has gone viral, and Wallace plans to take her Cliteracy street ad campaign beyond New York City, where she posts the posters touting Cliteracy.

At base is Wallace’s “100 Natural Laws of Cliteracy,” and the art installations are pointblank: “The clitoris is not a button. It is an iceberg,” reads one declaration.

And if the idea of a “Clit Rodeo” tickles your fancy, you won’t be disappointed.

Wallace says that even in (straight) porn the clit is considered “optional” and “kind of freaky,” we say the clit is rarely ignored or dismissed in the real thing, real dyke sex, between lesbians.

What do you think? Does the clit need its own PR?

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

P.S. Check out all Fatale’s sexy lesbian and adult-education videos.

The V Word

Friday, September 21st, 2012

Naomi Wolf

“Female sexuality around the world is targeted because through traumatizing the vagina, you can intimidate women on multiple other levels,” writes Naomi Wolf, author of a new book called Vagina: A New Biography.

Wolf’s article, “Kate’s breasts, Pussy Riot, virginity tests and our attitude on women’s bodies,” was published this week on

We don’t 100% agree with Wolf about porn—Porn 24/7, as she calls it. But we do agree with her in general about women’s bodies and sexuality. She writes:

In the struggle over sex, these choices are where the struggle lies: Who decides reproductive rights; who decides when and how breasts might be exposed; who decides who can say vagina and where; who decides who is a slut; and who must be punished with hard labor for asserting their right to define their own sexual and artistic identities.

The censorship by Apple iTunes, as noted in an article in The Guardian, was shocking enough. Adding asterisks so that the word vagina reads v****a.

We see actions the world over suppressing women’s sexuality and sexual expression.

Still and all, Jennifer Hough, writing in the Toronto Star, says “the widespread activism” about the trial and sentencing of Pussy Riot “suggests these young Russian dissidents are giving the movement new impetus, perhaps even tweaking feminism for a new generation.”

Why does women’s sexuality matter? Why does women’s porn matter? We say: It’s about control. Who controls women’s bodies and sexuality matters.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

P.S. Check out what calls “the best lesbian porn.”

P.P.S. You’re invited: Join Fatale Media on Pinterest. Sexy boards include—“Lesbians We Love,” “Romance,” “LGBTQ Life,” “Femme Thrills,” “Yum,” “Butch,” “Sexy Lesbians” and more. It’s fun!


Satisfaction…Getting No?

Friday, May 4th, 2012

Wendy Delorme Sexual Satisfaction and Female EjaculationThe issue of women’s satisfaction in bed has been of more than passing interest to us since the beginning. After all, that’s how Fatale Media came of age.

Our friend Deborah Sundahl, known also as “Ask Fanny,” is our very own female-ejaculation expert who knows a thing or two about women’s satisfaction in bed. After all, she teaches women and couples how to expand their relationships and how to achieve sexual satisfaction they couldn’t have dreamed of before.

Curious, we asked Deborah what questions she gets most often about sex. In response, she sent us a new “Ask Fanny” column.

  • What is “the urge to female ejaculate”?
  • Why can’t a woman have G-spot orgasms each time she and her partner make love?

These are the questions Deborah addresses in her Q&A “The Urge to Female Ejaculate,” and in her female-ejaculation workshops.

Yours in good love and sex,

Christi and Nan

P.S. Deborah’s next female ejaculation for couples workshop is to be held in Seattle, June 1-3, 2012. You can also experience one of Deborah’s workshops in Female Ejaculation: The Workshop.

P.P.S. Check out all Fatale’s DVDs.

New Poll: Teachers and Students?

Friday, September 30th, 2011

We read with interest the article about the naughty teacher who’s been charged with inappropriately sexting her student. Here’s the Huffington Post article about the Chicago-area high-school teacher.

In our last poll, we asked if you enjoyed sexting, and it seems like now and then it’s not such a bad thing. View the September 2011 poll results.

The article about the sexting teacher got us thinking, though: When you were a student, did you ever have an intimate relationship with your teacher?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

We’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you deliciously hot sex,

Nan and Christi

Ms. Hussy in Afterschool SpecialP.S. Afterschool Special is still our favorite schoolgirl fantasy video.

Hot hot hot, and we’ve yet to find real-life size-EEEE boobies like Ms. Hussy’s anywhere else!


Weekend Sex

Saturday, January 16th, 2010

The best kind. Long and lazy days. Slow sex that makes us smile.

It’s a three-day weekend here in the States; we honor Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. on Monday.

We’ve also been watching the horror in Haiti from the earthquake earlier this week. We gave a donation to Doctors Without Borders/Medecins Sans Frontieres. All donations to them now go to their valuable work in Haiti.

Our hearts and prayers are with the people of Haiti and the caregivers and rescue squads that have come from all over the world. We salute them.

That Door to Your Temple

Friday, August 14th, 2009

Karen Williams
“Kick open that door to your temple and let people in!”

So says Karen Williams, and watching once again her 2008 live show from the Knitting Factory in Hollywood is a good wakeup call.

We say yes! It’s time. Forget that moan-and-groan, I-don’t-wanna-have-sex attitude. Sex is good, and good for you. Sex is fun. Sex is real.

So quit whimpering and get inspired. Dress up. Get loose. Strap on. Try something you’ve never tried before.

And if you need some true inspiration, watch a sexy DVD. You won’t regret it.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

Your Letters to Fatale

Thursday, May 14th, 2009

A letter from Carol in response to last month’s public sex survey:

Hi Christi and fellow Fatale readers,
This is in response to the question about sex in public places.
To me, a Dom Les Fe, it’s about the hottest in the world! NOTHING turns me on more than knowing hot horny women are watching me put on a sexy show with another woman.  My earliest times of g/g were with an audience watching her ravish my naked body all night, while I lay on a bench hogtied and whatever else she wanted to do to me.  She was the best!


Thanks, Carol. Great description. Wish we’d been there! 

The new poll asks: What are your favorite dyke sex scenes in movies?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page, and already there are over 200 votes.

And don’t forget to check out The Crash Pad Series Volume 4 – yowza!

Until next time, we wish you dazzling hot sex,

Nan and Christi