Posts Tagged ‘romance’

Happy Valentine’s Day

Thursday, February 14th, 2013

sexy pink roses

Happy Valentine’s Day!

We have been traveling a lot this last month, short trips here and there, family and work and fun, oh my!

Valentine’s Day lets us take a breath, remember why we love each other, remember why taking a night off from the usual routine adds much-needed zest into the depths of winter.

Single? We say, treat yourself. Go out with a friend and leave your devices in your pockets or purses. Buy yourself a box of chocolate and eat it. Treat yourself to dinner and a movie…the sexier the movie, the better!

Whether it’s romance or pure pumping passion that you want, enjoy the day!

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

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Valentines and Romance

Friday, February 1st, 2013

Courtly Love

One of our favorite holidays of the year—how couldn’t it be?—is Valentine’s Day.

Do we need an excuse to celebrate romance? Maybe. The holiday puts us in mind of courtly love. The rules of courtly love were many. Here’s one of our favorites:

Love can deny nothing to love

This year we’ll enjoy a dinner out together. Select a bottle of good wine, eat some yummy food (and dessert!), go home and enjoy the rest of the evening just the two of us.

Valentine’s Day, riding on the heels of Mardi Gras and Ash Wednesday, will still be our favorite.

We hope your Valentine’s Day gives you romance and more.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

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Why Seduction Matters – Sometimes

Saturday, October 13th, 2012

We get asked a lot about lesbian seduction videos. Which videos show mature lesbians? Which videos show “first lesbian sex” seduction scenes? Which videos show butch/femme lesbian seduction?

Seduction, it turns out, is the key to what makes watching real lesbians make love. Unlike mainstream adult videos, real lesbian videos home in on the magic between two women.

Seduction matters—except sometimes.

Sometimes, who needs wine and roses? “Just fuck me, baby!”

In the hallway, in the car, in an alley, in the kitchen, in bed. It rarely matters where. Explosive sex can be the best medicine for what ails us.

When your sweetie has got her big dildo or fingers ready, or your sweetie is the one ready, willing and panting, go for it. Wine and roses, romantic snuggles, kissing can all come later.

For a good get-wet non-seduction, just-fuck-me scenes, check out Hard Love, one of our favorites. There are others with good spontaneous sex (and check this out for good butch/femme and butch/butch sex).

Here’s a sexy clip from One Night Stand:

ONE NIGHT STAND ( Trailer ) by emiliej

If for any reason you can’t see this trailer here, you can watch it right on the One Night Stand page on our site.

And when seduction is just what you had in mind, here are some seduction recommendations:

Nina and Jiz in Live Sex Show

  • Live Sex Show for best mature lesbian seduction with Nina Hartley and Jiz Lee



Hungry Hearts

  • Hungry Hearts for best classic lesbian butch/femme romance seduction with Pepper and Reeva.




Get seduced! Or not.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

P.S. Check out what calls “the best lesbian porn.”

7 Tips for How to Talk to Her

Tuesday, October 2nd, 2012

When it comes right down to talking, and talking sexy, to a potential new girlfriend, try these seven tips:

1. Think flirting. Don’t push the “I’m so sexy” persona unless you want to risk turning her off. Keep it light.

2. Ask about her, then listen. What does she like to do when she goes out? What’s the sexiest party she ever went to? When you get to know her better, ask her if she’s ever thought about role-playing, or if she likes to talk dirty in bed.

3. Eavesdrop, then pick up on her conversations. If you overhear her talking to her girlfriends or other friends (and this applies to her Facebook and Twitter postings too, for assessing her interests), pick up on what she’s saying, and how she’s saying it. Is she cooing away about a new pair of high heels? You know enough to ask which new style she likes best.

4. Timing makes a difference. You can eavesdrop, but don’t bust in on her conversations. Wait till there’s an opening, then talk to her.

5. Don’t ignore her friends. If you’re in a public or even semi-private place, include her friends in the conversation. Even if you’ve only got eyes for her, how you treat her friends reflects on your character.

6. Tongue-tied? Admit it. Say, “I’m usually kind of shy,” then ask to buy her a drink or coffee. As long as your timing is good, most people won’t say no.

7. Want to talk dirty? Tell her she’s sexy, and tell her exactly what you want to do with her once you’re in bed.

There are lots of ways to talk to women, and to engage them socially. Getting up the nerve is the hard part. Talking comes naturally once you relax. Flirting with her opens you up to talking dirty in bed and on the phone.

We owe a nod of thanks to Nick Savoy’s Love Systems for ideas that informed this article.

Read more about Talk to Me Baby.

See all Fatale Media’s sexy videos.


In the Spring

Friday, March 30th, 2012

Christi and Nan's apricot tree March 2012Easily a month earlier than usual, trees and flowers are blooming.

“In the Spring a young man’s fancy lightly turns to thoughts of love.”

So wrote Alfred, Lord Tennyson, the great Victorian poet, in “Locksley Hall.”

Here are our favorite frolics to celebrate springtime, good for lovers, good for romance, good for hookups!

• Corny as it sounds, our favorite way to welcome spring is to take a walk. Hold hands. Sip an iced coffee along the way. Say hello to the neighbors…or not…

• Have lunch at the beach. Pretend it’s your first date.

• Talk to Me BabyNo beach in sight? Find a low-lit Italian place and talk dirty to each other. It’s even more fun during the day.

• Borrow a friend’s dungeon. Okay, everybody doesn’t have a friend with a dungeon. But making love in somebody else’s “crash pad” is terribly sexy. Bring your own toys.

• Single and randy? Pick up a girl. Hit your favorite bar or coffee shop, make contact and take her home. Indulge yourself in a one-night stand.

• Go dancing. All that heat and sweat and oozing energy feeds the libido like nothing else.

• Special Delivery Do yourself. To celebrate springtime, you have all the power in your hot little hand.

Don’t’ forget to post your sexy moments on Facebook. Fatale Media’s Facebook wall welcomes your posts too. Be coy. We love a tease!

Happy spring!

Yours in good love and sex,

Christi and Nan

P.S. Don’t forget to check out Live Sex Show starring Jiz Lee and Nina Hartley—a springtime inspiration if there ever was one!

P.P.S. Check out all Fatale’s DVDs.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Tuesday, February 14th, 2012

Happy Valentine’s Day!

We began celebrating this weekend–staying in and making dinner, watching two Oscar-nominated movies. Romantic! Yesterday afternoon we went off to a beautiful Japanese spa nearby for a soothing, sexy hot tub, a private sauna and cold plunge.

Today, surprises! We’ll see what transpires for this Valentine’s Day.

P.S. The bestselling Valentine’s Day gift was Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels, a super-sexy vid to get you in the mood right away! Treat yourself!

Sex Tips: Sexy Moms

Friday, October 15th, 2010

Director Shar Rednour at the camera with producer Nan Kinney

We adore Shar Rednour and her partner, Jackie Strano. They are the duo behind S.I.R. Video, creators of some of the best lesbian porn we know.

Full disclosure: Fatale Media is the exclusive distributor for S.I.R. Video movies.

Not long ago, Shar started a new blog, Great Sex Good Mom, all about “how great sex made me a good mom.”

One thing Shar points out is that her parents were affectionate with each other in front of the kids. And why not? Does it make us, as adults, less loving? We don’t think so.

One of the blog posts we especially liked was all about candlelight. Subtitled “How to create a romantic setting even when baseballs threaten,” this is a lovely sex tips piece from the queen of hot sex.

We love candlelight, too. Thanks, Shar, for drawing our attention to how romantic it can be.

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Hard Love and How to Fuck in High HeelsTo see Shar and Jackie in one of Fatale’s bestselling DVDs, check out Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels. Tristan Taormino (Pucker Up, Village Voice) wrote: “Dyke drama at its finest, Hard Love is the story of two former girlfriends who can’t resist a last roll in the hay….The plot’s climax between the exes—Strano and newcomer C.C. Bell—is genuine, explosive, and one of the best lesbian sex scenes ever made.”


Wednesday, July 15th, 2009

We got a call from our old friend Norm not long ago. He spent about a year taking porn movies—including Fatale’s—to film students for screenings. Film students at Columbia University, the New School and New York University all saw Fatale’s DVDs. Ostensibly, Norm’s research was to benefit sex therapists, and it may still.

But Norm’s “findings” were what fascinated us:

hungry hearts hot tub sceneHungry Hearts was voted “Greatest turn-on,” and “More erotic than any other film.”

Why? Because the film students loved the strawberry scene in the hot tub. They loved the strawberry and they loved the blindfold. They also liked that the brunette is unshaven.

Strawberries are in season now. Blindfolds and romance are always in season. If you want more inspiration, check out Hungry Hearts.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

Spring Fling: Bestsellers for Romance

Monday, March 2nd, 2009

We had a lovely Valentine’s Day weekend. Thank you for asking.

Yes, we stayed home and made a romantic dinner just for the two of us. Then we watched One Night Stand, our latest favorite DVD. We couldn’t resist.

Curious what other Fatale customers were watching for Valentine’s Day romance? Here’s the lineup of bestsellers for February:


The Crash Pad and The Crash Pad Gift Set (tied for first place)

Coming Home

One Night Stand


Straight and Educational
Bend Over Boyfriend

Bend Over Boyfriend Gift Set

How to Female Ejaculate

Female Ejaculation for Couples

So as you’re thinking about spring break, getting away from it all, don’t forget to plan for romance…and lots of lusty sex! There’s nothing like a hit of good, real porn made by and for dykes to intrigue the right kind of lover.

And for adventurous straight couples, the same holds true—made by and for women makes all the difference in the world. Try it, she’ll like it.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi