G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

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Dear Fanny,

I see a lot of videos with women “squirting.” Is that female ejaculation? What’s the difference in terms?

Nancy, USA

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Dear Nancy,

Yes, squirting is female ejaculation. The term squirting comes from the porn industry, and is their name for it. It is a show term.

I personally do not care for the word squirting outside the porn industry, meaning in our bedrooms, because it does not convey the full experience, and seems a bit adolescent, and therefore limiting, in its description.

Female ejaculation—the thing—is inherently feminine, clear and odorless to all but the most discerning noses. To those intimately familiar with their female ejaculate, it can have a very fresh and uplifting fragrance, perhaps best described as an “essence.”

Female ejaculation—the expression—conveys a woman deeply in touch with herself and her sexuality, and her ability to feel sexual love, connection and excitement with her partner.

Yes, a woman can squirt. She can also gush, flood and flow like a fountain.

Fanny

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G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

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Dear Fanny,

What color is female ejaculate?

Curious

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Dear Curious,

Female ejaculate is clear and odorless to all but the most discerning noses. To those intimately familiar with their female ejaculate, it can have a very fresh and uplifting fragrance, perhaps best described as an “essence.”

It appears that some women try too hard to ejaculate, and that could be the cause of occasional discoloration in their ejaculate, a cloudiness or pale hue. There is no need to worry when this occurs, just quit trying too hard!

Also, the temperature and amount of ejaculate changes with the menstrual cycle. During the time from ovulation to menstruation, female ejaculation is “hotter” and “saltier” if you taste it. Plus there tends to be more of it. It is during this time when traces of urine may show up. This only happens to some women, not all.

After menstruation and before ovulation, female ejaculate is “cooler,” clearer, and there is less of it.

Happy gushing!

Fanny

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Many of you know g-spot expert Deborah Sundahl as Fanny Fatale. In “Ask Fanny,” an exclusive column created just for this newsletter, she answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

Dear Fanny,

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Dear JW,

The best toy for female ejaculation is a glass toy with a pronounced “lip” at the end—specifically, a slender handle with a “ball” at the end is best. The reason for this is that many woman who are first learning to ejaculate need extra stimulation, and jelly rubber, silicon or other material is too soft. Mind you, this is not a toy to be banging away with. This toy is for delicate exploration… (more…)