Our dear friend Tony wrote to us with some more insights into the oftentimes mysterious world of straight kinky relationships.

We’ve known Tony for years, and he has shared his perspectives on sex and politics and the geopolitical shifts that allow our worlds to intersect. In another place and time, our worlds would probably have never met.

But that’s the fun thing about what we do! We meet people from all over the world and from all walks of life. This business offers a wonderful place for intersections.

Our friend’s latest letter was edited slightly to avoid the e-mail censors; this is his original letter to us:

“I would like to see posting the issue of pubic hair. As I told you before, my four girls have bushy pubic hair, which gives me a great sexual appetite for a good fuck.

“I did some surveying here [in Massachusetts], asking many women if they shave or keep growing their cunt hair and why? The women who shave believe that it will be easy for them to masturbate and to be licked from both sexes.

“The other women keep growing their pubic hair, because while masturbating they love to feel the hair and touch it, especially this excites them while they are taking a shower, see the shampoo on their pubic hair, as they believe this makes them feel that their privates are special, different from others’. When it comes to sex, they get more orgasm feeling, from the tongue on their pubic hair and the dick.

“As for me I adore the pubic hair to be bushy, because once my girls finish peeing on my face and in my mouth, I suck dry their pubic hair, while doing that my girls and me, we get extreme sexual excitement.”

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. To see bushy public areas on display, check out Full Load: Scenes from ssspread.com. The last scene, down in the laundry, is a particularly nice one.

P.P.S. To read the letter that preceded this one, see “Advice on a Sexual Issue (Drinking Pee).”

A reader wrote: “I need your advice on a sexual issue. While we are having sex (me and the girls), they enjoy and get excited about peeing on me, which in return I do love. I want to know if it’s okay to drink the pee because on daily basis I drink [several] bottles.”

We discussed this sexual practice, also called “golden showers” if she just peed on you, and decided that it’s probably okay if you drink your girlfriends’ pee. If it doesn’t taste right, then don’t, but assuming they’re healthy and not eating anything that would affect the taste, then you’re probably good to go.

But we also wondered, was it really pee. Perhaps the girls are female ejaculating? Could it be female ejaculate you’re really drinking? Or partially?

When we e-mailed this reader to ask him, he replied, “It’s pee and not ejaculation, because one girl spreads her legs in a way her cunt is a few inches away from my month facing me, and she starts peeing inside my month (the taste is pee) while another is giving me oral sex, then once she finishes peeing and I drink all her pee, the others do the same, and you can now have a clear picture how much pee I drink. To tell you the truth it tastes good.

“The amazing thing is that every time they pee in my month and I swallow all, I feel relaxed, and all the tension that I used to have is gone. Any explanation for that? I drink lots of my girls’ pee, because they get excited and it makes them happy. They do also ejaculate a lot while we are having sex.”

To bolster our understanding of the history and lore around drinking one’s own urine, we turned to the Wikipedia article on urine. Indeed, as we’d always heard, people have been drinking their urine and justifying it for thousands of years.

It follows suit that drinking your girlfriends’ pee would have similar beneficial properties.

If you’re not sure what’s what down there and want to further explore female ejaculation and the G-spot, check out Deborah Sundahl’s accessible and informative Female Ejaculation for Couples. Three couples, under the tutelage of female-ejaculation expert Deborah Sundahl, learn to female ejaculate.

We can’t be more enthusiastic about Shine Louise Houston’s new Crash Pad Series Volume 6 DVD. Wow!

Every time we think Shine can’t top her previous Crash Pad movies, she comes up with another juicy offering.

In The Crash Pad Series Volume 6 five new scenes take the denizens of the Crash Pad even further into exploring the limits of lesbian and queer sex.

Stars in this DVD—

–The gorgeous Dylan Ryan and Jiz Lee
–Casey and Tina in a spanking scene
–Cyd Loverboy and James Darling for steamy butch/FTM action
–Carson and Ray in an interracial sexfest
–And Sidney and Summer Vega in the last scene, our favorite. 

The latest DVD from Shine Louise Houston is in stock and ships within 24 hours.

Order now!

See all Fatale’s DVDs.

Last month, we asked: How do you celebrate Valentine’s Day?

Check out the results here: http://www.fatalemedia.com/polls/past_polls.html

This month we ask:
Are you an exhibitionist or a voyeur?

Tell us now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!

Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com

Staying warm this winter is a real chore! Our friends in New York City are freezing their buns off. Brrr.

So we say, stay home and watch porn instead! That’ll warm you up.

 The lesbian vids are on the loose–our top sellers this last week. In advance of Valentine’s Day, so it seems.

Do you know you can have your DVD gift-wrapped with a Valentine’s Day theme? Yes, you may. Just click the dropdown box in the Fatale checkout. Easy.

And gift cards are available too, so you can tell your sweetie you love her. Or suggest a passionate night out.  Or at home, cozy and watching the snow fall outside.

Sexy gift sets are on offer too and often ship free. For when you absolutely have to have more than  just one.

Thank you for making Fatale’s holiday season a good one. Lots of people took advantage of Fatale’s Shipping Special—free shipping on all orders sent within the U.S. and half-price shipping on all orders sent outside the U.S. It’s our gift to you.

Tomorrow night, January 15th, 2011, the shipping special ends. So if there’s a sexy DVD you’ve been eyeing, or if you want to get your sweetie a gift, do it now while you’re thinking about it. You’ll get a good deal.

Top Sellers This Holiday Season

 
1. Fatale’s top-selling DVD this season was the instructional Bend Over Boyfriend. Scroll down to see a letter about BOB from Emilie in Montreal. Thanks, Emilie!

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2. Next up was the S.I.R. Video knockout starring Shar Rednour and Jackie Strano: Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels.

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3. This last week there’s been a flurry of activity around Carolyn Caizzi’s Coming Home. Big, curvy dykes start off this vid, and three more racy vignettes follow.

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Take advantage of the special rates—no shipping fee within the U.S., which is a good deal, and half-price shipping for orders sent outside the U.S. Satisfaction is guaranteed.

No minimum purchase required, either. Promise.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. Check out Fatale’s best lesbian videos.

Now’s the time to think about holiday gift-giving, whether you live inside or outside the U.S.

The bestselling gift package from Fatale this year is The Bend Over Boyfriend Gift Set. For the curious among us, this is a real winner.

The number-one lesbian DVD selling this holiday season is Coming Home by Carolyn Caizzi, followed by Afterschool Special and Turn Me Up Over and On.

FHM wrote about Afterschool Special, “This video was so excellent, I couldn’t believe it was filmed by amateurs.”

The gift package “Where the Heart Is” includes both these videos and Carolyn Caizzi’s Special Delivery, another lesbian amateur goodie!

And remember, when you order from Fatale, you get personalized service and attention to detail. Want your DVD or gift set gift-wrapped? It’s easy—simply check the box during checkout.

Your 100% satisfaction is guaranteed.

Gift certificates are now available from Fatale too. 

You’ve got lots of just-right, money-saving gift sets, too. See all Fatale’s gift packages.

See the 2010 Holiday Shipping Schedule.

G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. You may send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com; please put FE Q&A in the subject line.

Dear Fanny,
I don’t think my girlfriend can female ejaculate anymore. Is this possible, when women get older they don’t always have the same physical reactions?

Frank

Dear Frank,
Age and being able to female ejaculate do not seem to be related. In fact, women can usually gush the same amount of fluid as they age, even into old age. We are finding that our ideas about sex as we age do not have to do with diminished interest, but with health. Stay fit, gals!

There are other reasons why women stop ejaculating, too. Primarily, there are two reasons: 1) a woman’s partner has indicated, usually right after a woman ejaculates, that he or she doesn’t like female ejaculation; or 2) a woman is having diminished feelings for her partner, or there is some temporary problem with intimacy in the relationship; or 3) she feels pressured by her partner to either ejaculate or to learn how.

All these affect a woman’s ability to ejaculate because female ejaculation and affection are often intertwined, and because so little is really known about how female ejaculation works with emotions, most women do not put two and two together.

HAPPY HOLIDAYS!

Deborah Sundahl

P.S. To learn the basics of female ejaculation and the G-spot, take a look at How to Female Ejaculate: Find Your G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale.

Katrina Fox is the amazing editor-in-chief of the online magazine The Scavenger. Each month, she cooks up a brew of articles—about sexual health, sexual life, social justice, the media, feminism and pop culture, “gender diversity” and much, much more. We admire Katrina’s tireless devotion to The Scavenger, a damned good monthly read.

Here are some offerings from the November issue, and just so you know, the monthly issues tend to arrive mid-month:

“In defence of stripping and sex work,” an interview with Zahra Stardust by Katrina Fox

“Addressing racism and classism in animal rights activism” by Stephanie Lai

“Am I genderqueer?” by Tiara the Merchgirl

Snip from this last piece: “My question(s) stem from this: I don’t feel like I can neatly relate to masculinity or femininity (and also butch or femme) as contemporary Western culture, or even Malaysian/Bengali culture, defines them.”

Food for thought and worth reading.

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Speaking of which, one of the first genderqueer titles Fatale put out was Full Load: Scenes from ssspread.com.

We called it an “FTM and lesbian sex video.” It is still one of the best for its explicit views of genderqueers, thanks to the superb camerawork of Barbara DeGenevieve.

G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. You may send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com; please put FE Q&A in the subject line.

Dear Fanny,
My [partner] is a bbw and she just started squirting but it just kind of runs out. What tips do you have to make her squirt longer and harder?

Jason

Dear Jason,
Your big beautiful woman ejaculates! Please give her my congratulations!

“Just kind of runs out”? Sir, if you please. Is there a more appreciative way to state this?

Most women do not arc out like a porn star; most women gush or flood, which is what your partner is doing. This is 100% normal.

Strong PC muscles help ejaculate shoot out, so Kegel exercises always help in that regard. This is not the goal, however, which is why I don’t only teach tips on how to “make her squirt longer and harder.”

Rather, the primary goal is expressing love and satisfaction with your big beautiful woman. Then she will ejaculate freely and there will be more of it.

Fanny

P.S. To learn the basics of female ejaculation and the G-spot, and to watch four women female ejaculate (including arcing), see How to Female Ejaculate: Find Your G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale.

P.P.S. To watch Deborah guide three couples through the process of learning to female ejaculate, check out Female Ejaculation for Couples.