Archive for the ‘Sex’ Category
Santa’s Not the Only One Coming This Christmas
Friday, December 13th, 2013Happy Fisting Day 2013
Monday, October 21st, 2013
Celebrating Fisting
Friday, October 18th, 2013Fisting has come out of the closet. October 21, 2013 marks the third anniversary of International Fisting Day, a celebration of a sexy sex act that bothers the hell out of a lot of people.
The imagery of the fist means revolution. It means boxing. It means violence. It means success, “hell, yeah, we did it.” It means a fist bump.
The hand curled into a fist. Tight or loose, it’s the way some people hold drumsticks or baseball bats. Grab a line on a sailboat. A dog’s leash. The tethers on a hot-air balloon. Whips.
Fisting means loving your lady with your whole hand. The feeling is exquisite. Whether giving or getting, it’s an intimate gesture that surpasses nearly all others.
We’re not sure of the history of the hidden nature of fisting, but we do know that the law in the some areas, here in the U.S. and other places, isn’t real fond of images of women fisting. Fisting each other, specifically. Gay guys have their own culture of fisting, and their own porn around fisting. Lesbian fisting sex is different, although it may seem the gesture is similar.
Thank you to @JizLee and @CourtneyTrouble for standing up for fisting, for bringing fisting out of the closet and into the open with its own legitimate “International Day.” And Twitter hashtag – #FistingDay
Jiz Lee has a good post, “Fisting Day.”
On Monday, fisting images, art, blog posts and more will go live at this official Fisting Tumblr page. Grab your gloves and lube and go!
Yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
P.S. Want to see some? Check out Nina and Jiz in Live Sex Show, or Courtney Trouble’s Hard Femme.
Time to Play Dress Up!
Friday, October 18th, 2013
Halloween is nearly upon us, and just because you’re not in grade school anymore, it doesn’t mean you can’t dress up and celebrate this most excellent pagan holiday.
We started a Pinterest board called Sexy Halloween. Follow the board and we’ll invite you to post! It’s as easy as that.
Inspiration for costumes, inspirations for dressing up, inspiration for role-playing. Fun!
Join us on Fatale’s Sexy Halloween Pinterest board!
P.S. One of our favorite sexy dress-up role-play scenes is from Queer Manor, with a tongue-in-cheek Madison Young and her lady-in-waiting. Hmm sexy.
Spontaneous O
Friday, October 4th, 2013
The verdict is in. Science has confirmed the ability to achieve spontaneous orgasms via fantasy alone. This is big. We’ve known about Tantra for a long time, and Tantra practitioners always seem to have the secret smile that says, “I have the best orgasms ever.”
Women do it more and better than men, according to “I’ll Have What She’s Thinking.” Surprised?
Where does porn fit into this whole schema? It wasn’t mentioned. During the scans of the orgasm participants’ brains, volunteers were told only to fantasize.
But what is porn if not fantasy come to life on the screen? We’re willing to bet purveyors of porn are high on the list of those gifted with spontaneous Os!
Are you a spontaneous O? What do you like best about it?
Yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
P.S. For some spontaneous Os of your own, check out all Fatale Media’s videos!
Fatale Bestsellers
Friday, October 4th, 2013This last month has been a lively one, with emphasis on female ejaculation and the G-spot. There was lots of positive response to “G-Spot Lessons.”
Here are the top 5 Fatale bestsellers from the last month:
1. Bend Over Boyfriend – the bestselling guide to male anal sex, including lessons and demonstrations headed by Carol Queen and Robert Lawrence.
2. How to Female Ejaculate – Deborah Sundahl’s classic bestseller on how to find the G-spot and female ejaculate. The all-women workshop is perfect for those who want to broaden and enhance their sexuality.
3. Bend Over Boyfriend II – more rockin’ less talkin’, directed by the inimitable Shar Rednour and featuring three couples new to male anal pleasure.
4. Female Ejaculation for Couples – Deborah Sundahl picks up with a workshop for three couples who want to learn to experience the joys of female ejaculation. Men are taught to explore the G-spot manually, and the best sexual positions to create G-spot ecstasy.
5. Afterschool Special and Turn Me Up Over and On (double DVD) – A schoolgirl gangbang on a campus setting (“more dildos than you can shake a stick at,” wrote FHM magazine in an outstanding review) is both funny and sexy. Turn Me Up Over and On, directed by the inordinately talented Carolyn Caizzi, is a sweet romantic lesbian tryst.
This has got to be the first month in memory when the educational titles outsold the lesbian titles!
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The Clit Gets an Ad Campaign
Friday, September 13th, 2013
We didn’t realize the clit needed its own ad campaign. But according to Sophia Wallace, that’s exactly what the clit—unappreciated, undervalued in the world—needs. And she’s out to make sure the world knows about it in a new “Cliteracy” campaign.
Why cliteracy? Why now?
This is about much more than just women’s sexuality, Wallace maintains.
“Cliteracy is about not having one’s body controlled or legislated. Not having access to the pleasure that is your birthright is a deeply political act,” she told the Huffington Post.
A Tumblr campaign has gone viral, and Wallace plans to take her Cliteracy street ad campaign beyond New York City, where she posts the posters touting Cliteracy.
At base is Wallace’s “100 Natural Laws of Cliteracy,” and the art installations are pointblank: “The clitoris is not a button. It is an iceberg,” reads one declaration.
And if the idea of a “Clit Rodeo” tickles your fancy, you won’t be disappointed.
Wallace says that even in (straight) porn the clit is considered “optional” and “kind of freaky,” we say the clit is rarely ignored or dismissed in the real thing, real dyke sex, between lesbians.
What do you think? Does the clit need its own PR?
Yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
P.S. Check out all Fatale’s sexy lesbian and adult-education videos.
G-Spot Lessons
Thursday, September 12th, 2013
Does G-spot sex come naturally to you? To a lot of people, it doesn’t, and for that G-spot diva Deborah Sundahl offers a wealth of resources.
Want to learn where the G-spot is, what it is and how to make your woman have the deepest, sexiest orgasms you ever imagined? Then Female Ejaculation: The Workshop is for you. An all-woman cast provides a safe space in which to talk, to touch, to explore.
Want to explore G-spot orgasms in a straight couples context? Then we recommend Female Ejaculation for Couples. Three straight couples talk openly and learn to have G-spot sex under the tutelage of expert Deborah Sundahl.
Deborah also offers in-person workshops. These intimate, loving sessions are just right if you want or need guidance from an experienced, gentle teacher.
Deborah guides you to learn where the G-spot is, what makes it so vital to fulfilling sex, and how to massage the G-spot to achieve maximum pleasure. Workshops are either for women only or for couples.
Her female ejaculation and the G-spot webinars are perfect if you want to participate but aren’t in the neighborhood where Deborah is teaching.
Now through November, she’s in the U.K., Europe and Ireland giving workshops and lectures. Countries include England, Ireland, Germany, Switzerland, Copenhagen, Poland, Belgium and France. She returns to the U.S. at the end of the year.
Check out Deborah’s complete events calendar, including webinars.
See all Deborah’s DVDs and female ejaculation book on Fatale’s site.
3 Things You Should Never Say to Your Lover
Saturday, August 17th, 2013Not that every day brings romance, chocolate, flowers, Champagne, to a relationship, but there are some things that are just plain wrong to say face to face to your sweetheart.
1. That dress makes you look fat.
2. It’s our anniversary!??
3. Did you come yet?
Tell Us What You Think
We want to hear from you! What does this list leave out? Leave a comment here or join the discussion on Fatale’s Facebook page.
Women’s Pleasure?
Friday, November 15th, 2013Does it shock you that in 2013 a new study shows that women in hook-ups or one-night stands fare worse when it comes to sexual satisfaction? Fully sixty percent—60%–of women in short-term hookups do not have orgasms.
Men are doing just fine. The sexually satisfied hookup men count for 80% of the total. “After his own orgasm…he showed no interest in her satisfaction,” noted the article, “In Hookups, Inequality Still Reigns.”
We wonder if lesbians are in the same situation. Are 60% of lesbians unsatisfied at the close of a hookup or one-nighter? Somehow we doubt it.
Is it even desirable to forego pleasure to ensure that your partner gets off?
Confession: many times one or the other of us would give the other pleasure—multiple gushing ecstatic orgasms—and just call it quits. Another time. Tomorrow.
But the study mentions that issue too: there is no “next time” and therefore maybe the responsibility falls flat. You didn’t get off? Oh, well.
Women deserve pleasure. They deserve to be pleased. Our life’s work has been dedicated to the pleasure and pleasuring of women.
Maybe women need a little porn and play toys…a nice juicy dildo…to get some satisfaction on their own. Our fave is the sexiest dyke movie “One Night Stand.”
Till next time, happy Thanksgiving, happy Hanukkah.
Yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
@FataleMedia
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