Sex parties or play parties even today are usually still quiet affairs…meaning you don’t advertise, you don’t tell your neighbors, you don’t tell all your friends.

If you want to host a sex party, remember to provide plenty of room for sex play and space too for downtime. Be selective about who you invite and determine your own rules, but don’t make too many rules that will stifle spontaneity.

As at any party, you provide the food and drink. It’s a good idea to buy extra lube and condoms, but your guests should bring their own toys. Turn the heat up if it’s cold outside. You don’t want to see your guests freezing and covered with goose bumps as they try to get in the mood for sex. (more…)

You may have noticed that you can now comment on any story in the newsletter. You should still feel free to e-mail us, but we encourage you to share your stories and experiences with others at the blog.

In last month’s poll, we asked: Do you enjoy anal sex with a strap-on dildo?

Surprise, surprise! Not all of you like anal sex. But for those who do, big ones anyone?

See all the results here.

This month we ask: Do you like spanking during sex?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex.

Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com

We’ve been in the business of lesbian sex movies for a long time, over 20 years, but this was a new one on us: scissoring. Supposedly a sex act where two lesbians interlink their legs to form two sets of “scissors” and rub their girl parts together, not only the term but the act itself is one we’ve never seen or done!

What gives? Is this some new position lesbians have suddenly “discovered”? Is it a term made up by some guys who haven’t really witnessed lesbian sex in the flesh or movies?

An article, “It’s Lesbian Sex 101 with Professor Tam,” first clued us in to this odd expression. And no, scissoring is not the same as tribadism, which is our experience is usually done face to face.

The idea of using a double-headed dildo in this scissors position crossed our minds, but women’s insides aren’t shaped like shotgun apartments. That’s why most double-headed dildos are shaped like the letter U.

Besides, what fun is sex if you can’t kiss each other, play with each other’s nipples and watch her face as she comes?

What do you think? You can comment here.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com

christi@fatalemedia.com

Do lesbians like anal? You bet we do! Lesbians have come out of the closet about liking anal sex with big dildos, too. Some of the sexiest lesbian anal sex we’ve seen lately has been in Shine Louise Houston’s Wild Kingdom.

Never tried anal with anything bigger than your pinkie? (more…)

There’s a subtle difference between getting what you want and getting what you can’t have. Getting what you want, even a seemingly unattainable object of your desire, brings a frisson of excitement, a tingle to the belly. The chase is as delicious as the getting.

Fantasies play a strong role here. You can picture exactly what you want—the cutest girl in the room, a real female ejaculation, getting pegged or hard lesbian love like you’ve never had it in your life. So far.

What you can’t have, that’s another matter, forbidden fruit. If you’re obsessive about it, fantasies can also play a role. Like Deb Shooter in Special Delivery, you get out that vibrator and dream on and on, wishing you could be elsewhere, getting what you just can’t have right now.

Lusting after forbidden fruit seems impractical or silly to some people. But sometimes things change. Or you make them change. Hope blooms inside you. Carrying that torch, be it for weeks, years or decades, was worth it after all.

What do you think? You can tell us here.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com

christi@fatalemedia.com

There are beautiful women everywhere we look these days. Strolling down the street in skimpy summer clothes, or towing little kids through airports, or sunbathing on the beach…they’re everywhere.

What makes them beautiful is the sheer self-confidence in their every movement. Something almost ineffable shines through their smiles, in their eyes.

Skinny, fat, pear- or apple-shaped, leggy or stumpy, black and brown and Asian and Anglo, long-haired or cropped, muscular or soft—they exude beauty. If you love women like we do, you’re probably noticing them too.

And if you haven’t looked around lately, do it. There’s something magic in the air.

Talk to us. What do you think makes a woman beautiful? Click here to comment.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com

christi@fatalemedia.com

For some gorgeous women in a group scene, check out Afterschool Special.

Sex is obsession. When you just have to have it, have to get some, have to be touched, that’s obsession. Is this nymphomania, or “hypersexuality,” as some people call it? We don’t think so. Thinking about sex, we say, is a good thing. Lust keeps you young and alive and completely sensate. Your skin is alive, your blood rushes through your body and if you orgasm, great!

When we met, the obsession was tied with love…or maybe just pure unadulterated lust at first. (more…)